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January 29th, 2008

Homeschooling With a Bit of Humor and a Lot of Heath

Okay, so my daughter did a ton of science yesterday, so now that she’s got her math done for the day, we can get on with the other subjects.

  • English - Shakespeare
  • Geography/Social Studies - Venice and the Doge
  • History - Battle of Obdurman (Winston Churchill fought in this battle)
  • More History and Literature - Chivalry and Chaucer

Hmmm. Very rigorous, don’t you think? So let’s ponder this. What would be the best way to cover these challenging topics?

No-brainer answer: With movies. Obviously. But remember, I’ve only got one student left and she’s an older teen. These movies aren’t for the youngsters — or even the oldsters depending on your tastes.

Well, that will keep us busy through the evening, won’t it. Somebody better warm up the popcorn maker. We’re already mostly finished with the first one on the list.

And look, one week after the death of the much-loved, legendary Heath Ledger, we’re paying homage to him by watching four of his movies on a school day.

And if we wanted to go further, we could also watch Ned Kelly (Australian History), The Brothers Grimm (Literature), and The Patriot (US History). But that would keep us up just too late, and I’ve already slept through Ned Kelly once.

December 31st, 2007

Making the Decision To Homeschool … What Tipped The Balance For Me

Many moons ago, my then soon-to-be husband told me that our children would be homeschooled. I silently disagreed because I thought, “How could I do the job of a teacher who is trained for the job? How could I presume to do her job?” I figured that I had plenty of time to get things sorted out and get those future kids in school.

Funny thing is … I’m the one who got sorted out. One day I was reading Mothering and came across an article about homeschooling titled “Homegrown and Homeschooled.” Here’s the part that convinced me that homeschooling was probably something that would be good for us.

According to Bronfenbrenner and others, children in the first 10 to 12 years of life are better taught at home; they are also far better socialized at home…. Positive sociability is characterized by altruistic and principled attitudes and is firmly linked with the family. It is demonstrated in both the quantity and quality of self-confidence, self-respect, and self-worth deriving from the values and experiences provided by the family at least until the child can reason consistently. In other words, children who work, eat, play, rest, and interact each day with parents more than with peers sense that they are part of the family corporation–that they are needed, wanted, and depended upon. Such children are more often thinkers rather than mere repeaters of other children’s thoughts. [Because they are] independent and self-directed in their acquisition of values and skills, they largely avoid peer dependency.

I didn’t save this article and was surprised to find it online. It starts on Page 1.

November 28th, 2007

Nagging Kids To Practice Piano

I do not have to nag my daughter to practice her piano. I never have. Amazing*, but true!

She wanted to take lessons for a long time, but we put her off for all the usual reasons. Finally when she did get lessons, she was so happy that she just has not had a problem getting practice in. Maybe a lot of kids are like this. Maybe she has an inspiring teacher. Maybe … anything. It is all just so Alfie Kohn-esque. Yes, I read his book PBR back in ‘94/’95. I can’t say I agree with it all, but I still remember, albeit vaguely, the story of the child and violin lessons. So, the reward, for my daughter, I presume, is in the playing of the piano. I don’t have to bribe her to play. And I also don’t have to nag. It’s been her choice all the way, which is a relief to me.

I have, however, bribed/rewarded my children. Used consciously (with a little thought) rewarding children seems harmless and sometimes beneficial. So I don’t think that people are “punished by rewards” in every instance. I do think that piano playing could be damaged that way though.

For us, it worked well to give the kids a 50-cent credit every time they read a chapter book. When they saved up enough credits, we’d go to the bookstore and they could pick out one educational book. I didn’t care if it was literature or non-fiction or activity. It just had to have the essence of “education.” The 50 cents wasn’t enough of a carrot to make them read non-stop like crazed bibliophiles, so it really didn’t change their everyday behavior. But it was a sweet little bonus that they appreciated and anticipated. Plus, by making the reward a book, I think I was helping to show that learning was the ultimate reward of reading. Maybe. I hope that makes sense. I suppose I’d have to increase it to $1 these days, though.

Threats of bad grades never worked around here. My unthinking comments came out, “If you aren’t careful, you’ll get an F.” I was always caught unaware when I got a blank stare as a response to my comment. It’s a weird thing, to me, to not be motivated by getting an A or an F. It’s what I was taught by the classroom schools I attended. But grades were not motivational in our homeschool, which I think was a good thing, because I do believe in learning for the sake of learning.

pic of sheet musicAnyway, this was my daughter’s recent recital piece. See the pic? A little dark, huh? That’s too bad because on the cover is a neat painting of “Festivity given to the Sultan’s wife in the Seraglio,” which doesn’t seem to be showing up any where else online so I can’t link it. She played one of Mozart’s Sonatas. Okay, for the musical readers, it’s Sonata in A Major, K. 331 for the piano by Mozart with a whole bunch of notes/comments which are edited by Maurice Hinson. She played it well. She didn’t, however, dress up like homeschooler Lauren, whose mom blogs, did for her recital in an exquisite blue dress. Wow! Go and see for yourself. Regrettably, I lost all the stuff off of my camera that I took at my daughter’s recital. ::kicking self::

*Maybe no one ever nags their kids to practice, but somewhere I got the idea that nagging occurs all too often.

November 20th, 2007

10 Books

Here’s an excerpt from Carmon’s blog that caught my attention:

I am aghast at the idea of a home with fewer than 10 books, and marginally appalled that 100 books in a household would be considered a number great enough to make a significant difference in test results for the student who lives with those tomes. There are more books than that scattered around my room, begging for me to read them. I’m amused that the researchers found people with college degrees who had fewer than 10 books in their households. What are they teaching them in schools these days?

10 books? Only 10 books in the home? Are you kidding? And this isn’t a poverty issue (one caused by lack of money) because you can get really inexpensive books at library sales or thrift stores. This is a poverty of another kind. Why wouldn’t people want more than 10 books in their homes? Why is it that they don’t need more than 10 books in their homes?

However, when you think about it, you can get a ton of stuff online. Shakespeare, automotive repair, world atlas, home remedies, gardening, general household repairs — all that kind of thing can be found online now. In fact, I hardly ever use my cookbooks when I need an idea on what/how to cook anymore. I just use a search engine and type in — as I did yesterday — chicken pot pie recipe. Then I read about five different recipes and go make chicken pot pie. It’s much easier to do that than to dig out five different cookbooks and read the recipes in them. So, life is different with the internet — and I suppose with XBOX, DVD players, and IPods, which we also have.

But still … we have more than 10 books. I probably bought nearly that many just in the past month.

And I don’t think I even believe that the researchers found people with college degrees who had less than 10 books in their homes. That’s not possible. When I finished university, I had tons of books. I can’t imagine someone just dumping the books they’ve bought during the college years as soon as they’re done with college. It just doesn’t work like that.

Anyway, both of my homeschooled students seem to like books, and they buy their own these days. They each own over 100 and will take them with them when they move out. So, I don’t think either of them will purposely live in a home without 10 books in it. Mission accomplished.

Hint for newbie homeschoolers: Buy each child their own bookcase early on.

November 8th, 2007

The Bitter Homeschooler’s Wish List

Here are my three favorites because I am just so sure you are dying to know:

We don’t look horrified and start quizzing your kids when we hear they’re in public school. Please stop drilling our children like potential oil fields to see if we’re doing what you consider an adequate job of homeschooling.

Don’t ask my kid if she wouldn’t rather go to school unless you don’t mind if I ask your kid if he wouldn’t rather stay home and get some sleep now and then.

Stop assuming that because the word “home” is right there in “homeschool,” we never leave the house. We’re the ones who go to the amusement parks, museums, and zoos in the middle of the week and in the off-season and laugh at you because you have to go on weekends and holidays when it’s crowded and icky.

Honorable Mention goes to:

If you can remember anything from chemistry or calculus class, you’re allowed to ask how we’ll teach these subjects to our kids. If you can’t, thank you for the reassurance that we couldn’t possibly do a worse job than your teachers did, and might even do a better one.

You too can read The Bitter Homeschooler’s Wish List.

October 12th, 2007

If You Read “The Road From Home” to Your Students …

The Road From Home is a fairly well-known homeschooling book. It’s recommended by a few curriculum publishers and is a Newbery Honor Book (1980). It’s about Veron, a young girl who is Armenian, and her family’s trek across Turkey into Syria, I believe, back in 1915. We read it aloud quite a while back, and I don’t remember all the details perfectly.

But my point is that if you read The Road From Home to your students, you might want to tie it in to current events going on between the US House Committee and Foreign Affairs and Turkey. What Veron and her family lived and died through has shown up in today’s current events … nearly a century later.

I’m happy to say that reading the book gave us a bit of a framework to help us understand today’s issues. Funny how that works.

Here are a few articles if you haven’t already heard the about the issue:

September 12th, 2007

Thankful for a Dull Life … This Time

Yes, we have boring vocabulary words: calumniate, perambulation, alacrity, votary, orisons, phantasmagoria, alameda, fain, tatterdemalion, mendicant, refulgent. Listening to the words (so we can attempt proper pronunciation) at m-w.com is about as exciting as it gets around here.

I am glad and relieved after reading Amy’s escapades with vocabulary words like concupiscense, morass, fetish, etc., that we have dull vocab words. Her vocabulary class would just about give me a nervous breakdown.

For Enquirer readers, our words are from Tales of the Alahambra by Washington Irving — a non-edited version. I don’t even want to know where Amy gets her vocabulary words.

Oh, yeah, and go buy some of Amy’s soap. It’s fancy schmancy.

August 31st, 2007

The Best Way to Learn Geography

I believe that the best* way to learn geography is the way we did it over the years. (Don’t I sound all braggy?)

We read books aloud in the afternoon for usually 1-2 hours, and we used our laser pointer to point out locations on the wall map.

So here’s how it worked: I’d read a book … let’s say He Went With Vasco Da Gama. It was a long time ago, so I’m going by memory here which is extremely faulty these days … okay? So, the expedition started out on the Tagus River. That is in Portugal, right? For some reason, though, I’m thinking the Tagus is in Spain, but I’m almost positive that Tagus was the river at the beginning of the Da Gama book. So, we point out Portugal on the wall map with the laser pointer. We just lay or lie there — whichever is the more proper (lie, probably, but I teach the kids that lying is wrong so laying could actually be more proper, especially for chickens) — and one of the kids will point to Portugal while I say something seemingly inane like, “It’s west of Spain and just north of the Rock of Gibraltar, you know, there by the Pillars of Hercules.” Inane, yes, but also instructive in a sneaky, possibly obnoxious sort of way that some kids don’t notice as being obnoxious.

On other days, I would say other trivial things like “Cape of Good Hope, Verde means green, residents of Sao Tome and Principe still speak Portuguese, Angolans might also, the Pope gave the eastern side of the Line of Demarcation to Portugal.” You get my drift.

Then, because our wall map doesn’t show the Tagus River or which cities prevaricate … I mean lie … on its shores, I pull out Goode’s World Atlas, which is not overly unwieldy, and pass it around. Sometimes, when reading a book with a bit of history in it, we have to resort to a historical atlas because the names and borders of the countries have changed. When we were reading about Cyrus the Great, we initially couldn’t figure out which was the Hycanian Sea.

So, back to Da Gama. We’d read He Went With Vasco Da Gama, and each day we’d get further along on the journey in the book. I seem to remember it ending in Goa, a city/province in India. And each day we would collaborate to retrace the trip that Vasco Da Gama and his men took, trying to remember his stops. I’d read (sometimes the kids read aloud) and we’d enjoy the story and keep track of where the characters were by means of the map and the laser pointer. By the end of the book, we had a pretty good idea of a number of places on the coast of Africa.

Oh, sure, I know that not all of the geographical information sticks, but a lot does stay with you. You’d be surprised. And if all that was gleaned from the exercise was just knowing the locations of Atlantic Ocean, Indian Ocean, Portugal, South Africa, and India, it still puts one a bit ahead of things and starts a framework for future geographical learning.

We also sometimes used a globe on a stand that I found at a thrift shop one day for a measly few bucks. It weighs about a pound and is still surviving. It has been awarded a prominent position in our living room behind a chair. It wasn’t too outdated when we got it. It has Zimbabwe and East Germany on it; the geographically average will be able to surmise the decade the globe was manufactured from that info. Because it’s on a stand, it’s pretty easy for us layabouts to pass around.

We also have two different inflatable globes that we tossed around to mix things up, you know, sedentary variety. After some years, my life partner made a map framed — one side was the US and the other was the world. It actually resides in a type of rack on the wall in the office, and it gets brought out to the living room to be set against the tv armoire during most school days. These maps were the most up to date that we could find even though the globes weren’t. That way we did have a definitive place to look for geographical truth. Of course, now Google Earth takes care of that.

Drats! I just tried to “save and continue editing” and it didn’t save and I lost some content. Drats. I can’t remember what I wrote.

Okay, so, let’s see … after a while I started bringing out my change jar. I’d read aloud and ask questions as I went. I’d ask questions, some geographical and some not, and the first to answer would have a random coin tossed to them. Sometimes I’d ask a specific question of each student and other times I’d give a bonus if the students could stump the teacher with one of their own questions. I’m not sure that it’s really a good idea to drag out the money, not just because I about went broke playing that game, but because I tend to believe that learning itself should be its own reward, Alfie Kohn, and all that. And once you start the whole money thing, it’s difficult to go back to the way things were. It does add a spark to the reading period if you can get the right balance. Grapes could also be the reward if you want to do the reward thing. Marbles. Legos. M&Ms ::Shrug::

I think I got off of the topic of geography. Um. The best* way to learn geography, right? So did it work? Yes, fairly well. I don’t believe that my students need to know the location of every country and its capital. However, something close to that would be ideal. I believe they should know where about 98% of the countries are. (You know, Upper Volta is in Africa, near the Sahara, and Malaysia is a bunch of islands basically northwest of Australia. Mumbai used to be Bombay and Myanmar used to be Burma and the capital of Australia is not Sydney.)

MAIN POINT: I think that geography is something more easily retained when learned in context. When it’s married to a story, it tends to stick around longer. When it’s part of a shared story between family members, then we can together refer back to that information for years thus supplying us with a painless method of review. Oh, I know, this method takes years to implement, but we started early … like from Day One. I think I started it initially because I spent day in and day out with these children and when I discussed country X, I wanted them to know where I was talking about — we needed a common ground, so to speak, when having discussions. A basic geographical knowledge is something that most people should bring to the table; I think most people agree, probably.

In the end, we can use World Discovery Deluxe (discontinued) and Geosense.net or some similar software program to learn the capitals and countries that were missed somewhere along the line. We have a GeoSafari Laptop, too, which provided some enjoyment over the years and can help fill the inevitable, but mostly inconsequential, gaps. And we are currently enjoying Geosense.net quite a bit. You log in (only a user name and password) and play online with others. My daughter and I can even sometimes manage to play each other. It’s not an easy game; it’s actually challenging because time is also a factor. It’s fun to see how close you can get to the proper city. I am awful at all those countries that used to be part of the USSR.

*Of course, I don’t believe that our way is best. I’m poking a bit of fun at “the experts” who have a penchant for telling us what is “best.”

July 16th, 2007

Shakespeare in the Park … Don’t Miss It!

There may still be time to catch your local Shakespeare in the Park play. Run, don’t walk, to your nearest search engine and type in “your town” (or nearby city) and “Shakespeare in the Park” and see what pops up. Hopefully, you’ll still have time to enjoy a little Shakespeare with your kids. I was shocked the first time we went at how enjoyable it was.

If you want one of those handy lists that proves that we still use Shakespeare’s words daily (or at least weekly), here ya’ go:

List #1 at PathGuy.com

List #2 at CummingsStudyGuides.net

February 2nd, 2007

Groundhog Day!

I’m glad we homeschool so that we could properly commemorate Groundhog Day.

I wanted to skip it this year, but my daughter chirped, “But it’s tradition.”

And she is right. We watch it every year. Even though today I would have rather just stuck with the schedule, which makes me feel like we’re on the right track.

So we watched Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell in the eternal classic Groundhog Day. We got it out of the way early.

This, of course, leads us right into our “Quote for Homeschooling Use.” You see, any time anyone says, “I’ll finish it (algebra, writing, science) tomorrow,” any family member can reply,

Well, what if there is no tomorrow? There wasn’t one today.

~ Phil in Groundhog Day

It’s not quite a movie for the very young — too many suicide attempts which would likely be confusing, plus there’s other objectional stuff. But for those of us who can stomach some of the bad, like when Phil just hauls off and punches Ned, Ned Ryerson, it ends up being a touching story.